Millions of years ago when the first man on earth discovered that he wasn’t alone, he tried to make friends with those around him. That indifferent acquaintance quickly transformed into a co-dependent relationship and today man has coined hundreds of terms for those several kinds of relationships that we encounter during our everyday lives. For…… Continue reading Puzzled mindsets and hard truths
I slipped into the wedding gown my mother had chosen for me. It was red, with silver embroidery and glass work on it. I was happy. It was just the way I had imagined it. The red dress and the perfect wedding. But it wasn’t perfect. I was marrying someone who made me happy but…… Continue reading Choices: Chapter 1: Unoriginal Sin
Compromise is a bad thing. It doesnt leave you alone ever and may be it is a good thing to just leave the other participant in the compromise. May be it wasnt supposed to work out. Otherwise we wouldnt be calling it that. Some people say that you only get hurt when you expect too…… Continue reading Compromise
People like to take precautions in almost every decision they make. Whether it is as small as trying a new ice cream flavor at McDonalds or it could be as big as changing jobs. Then there is a category of people who incorporate their religious teachings into these decisions. Now the problem is not very…… Continue reading It’s time to take off the gloves
She says: I won’t be telling fairy tales about him. There is no doubt about the fact that he loves football more than he loves me. I thought I could change him but guess what, I had to negotiate. No. let me rephrase it. I got a settlement. He continued to be like he was…… Continue reading Is he tired of you?
All of us have done this. We can’t deny nor can we say that it doesn’t happen. Walking across the street and you spot your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or even a friend who you no longer see. Especially in the early days of breakups people tend not to cross each other’s paths just to make sure that…… Continue reading Are we haunted?
The answer to the question of what men in our society want in a wife is very complex and if I say ambiguous that won’t be incorrect. On one hand they want an intellectual wife that is good up there and gorgeous all over. So in short they want a whole package, irrespective of the…… Continue reading Dating, marriages and decisions (Part 2)